You flirt with her friends.
The only thing worse than checking out another woman in a girl’s presence is hitting on one in her inner circle. Even if it’s playful, it’s a turnoff. Sure, she’ll love that you can hang with her group, but she doesn’t want to wonder if you’d rather be hooking up with her leggy friend. Be nice to her girlfriends—but give her your undivided attention. After all, she wants to know you only have eyes for her.
You watch every dime.
In today’s world, women are fully capable of paying their way on a date. In fact, they should offer to do so. However, if you insist on treating us, do it without complaining. No girl wants to date someone who constantly disputes pricing, pays with change, or leaves a stingy tip. We realize you don’t have an unlimited bank account, but you can still be chivalrous on a budget.
You smother her.
During the honeymoon phase of a relationship, you want to spend every minute with her. Don’t. While she wants to spend time with you, too, she also wants to see that you have a life of your own. If you tag along to all of her yoga classes and work happy hours, she can start to feel suffocated. Instead, make plans of your own during those times, and meet up with her later. Think about it this way: How will she miss you if you’re always by her side?
You don’t seem to care.
All women want to be reassured about a man’s feelings for them. But if you aren’t affectionate, it leaves us wondering if you’re only lukewarm about the relationship. We might be tempted to ditch the relationship for fear that you’ll do it first. You don’t need to grope her or gaze deeply into her eyes. Try complimenting her, holding her hand, telling her you missed her, or letting your elbows touch as you share dessert. Who knows? All these little signs of caring during a date may lead to the ultimate sign of affection later: sex.
You flake on plans.
You mentioned to your girl that you’d like to take her to dinner this Saturday—but that was before you scored tickets for the game. What should you do next? Please don’t pretend like you forgot about dinner or act like it wasn’t firm since you never finalized the plans. When you flake, she assumes you’re a snake. And the next time you allude to having dinner, she’ll have no problem declining the scam right away.
Instead, man up and call her. Tell her you’re sorry, and that you need to reschedule for next week. It reveals that you always intended to take her out on a date, and she’ll appreciate that. Just make sure you actually follow through with the makeup date.
You give her an ultimatum.
Everyone likes to get their way. But if she isn’t ready to commit just yet, don’t threaten her with a take-it-or-leave-it deal. Forcing her hand to make it "official" will only make her pull away. Instead, be patient and keep the lines of communication open. She’ll come around in her own time. And if she doesn’t, then you'll know for sure.
You’re BFF’s with your ex.
Getting back together with your ex is never a good idea, but rekindling a friendship with her is possible and even healthy—as long as your current flame doesn’t feel like the third wheel. Keep the texting and chatting (yes, even on Gchat) with your old fling to a minimum. And if you do meet with your ex, make sure your girlfriend knows about it beforehand. Tell her the location and time—even invite her along if she's up to it.
The relationship with your ex needs to be 100 percent transparent so your girl knows she has no reason to be jealous. If she still feels uneasy about the situation, scale back the interaction even more. This indicates that she is the new priority in your life—and your ex is your ex for a reason.
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Article source: http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/7-reasons-why-she-breaks-you
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